This was so well done. It’s TV-MA on Netflix, so be aware it can get pretty graphic, but it’s a powerful story. I wish I didn’t find it so relatable… As terrifying as it is to admit to others that you’ve experienced sexual abuse, it’s even harder when people dismiss it or try to convince others you made it up or that it “wasn’t that bad.” I understand why people are afraid to come forward and admit what happened to them. It’s heartbreaking. Imagine a terrified teen girl having to explain, in detail, over and over to cops, who are adult men, what was done to them. Even worse when they have zero empathy and make you feel like you’re not doing a good enough job explaining it? Do better.

Not just with relatives - with anyone. This can be very difficult to accomplish, but you have value and deserve peace. Boundaries won’t make you popular, but someone’s negative responses to your boundaries say more about them than you. People who care about you will seek to understand and honor your limitations.

I’m starting to think that people are losing their ability to communicate maturely… or maybe it’s just that they can’t handle someone saying no or disagreeing with them or (heaven forbid) standing up for themselves. Are we that fragile? Are we too proud to acknowledge how our actions affect others? Are we too stubborn to be accountable for our own actions? Are we unable to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes and simply utilize the golden rule? Good heavens, people - wake up! We were made for more than this… Treat people like humans with value - not someone for you to control, dismiss, or walk over.

  Life is a collection of choices - big and small. You have the freedom to choose how to act and respond to what happens to you. How you spend your limited days on this earth is your choice. Be sure your choices are things you’ll be proud of later. Don’t wait until a funeral to realize you should’ve made relationships more of a priority. Teach this to your kids. A lot of time is wasted online. Remind them that people are worth their time and attention. Especially family. Those are the ones they’ll miss the most when they’re gone someday. Teach your kids to be kind - especially to those who struggle to make friends. People can be so cruel - even to young people. Nobody is guaranteed tomorrow. Tell people you love them. Spend time together. Make today count.