Smear Campaign

I’ve had about enough of hearing back how I’m failing as a mother and as a person from someone I used to see as family and who has no say in my identity. I’m done being a part of their ridiculous smear campaign - trying to turn people I care about against me and the people I love - including my own children? Gross.

Sometimes boundaries mean removing someone from your life who is continuously introducing chaos. Being a Christian doesn’t make you a doormat. I have no problem forgiving people and being respectful toward others, but trust needs to be earned. You don't get a free pass to my life unless I say so.

Jesus didn't waste time arguing with people who were committed to misunderstanding Him.

Lord I choose to forgive the people that are trying to smear my name. Bless them and help them see that You are the truth and the only Way to everlasting life.



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